176 me & X dishing

 

 

 

----- Original Message -----
From: mE
Sent: Thursday, November 15, 2001 11:53 AM
To: 'X'
Subject: the latest foulness

Well,now I know why E was allowed to attend renfaire without
A.

Apparently, her lover J is now living with them. According to
--, E says that it's just 'temporary' until J can "get on
his feet".

hmmm. Yeah, and what incentive would J have to 'get on his feet'
since he's living with his lover and they're being supported by E?

I am just too distressed. But...I will not get involved. If E had
wanted me to know this about his living situation, he would have
mentioned it last time we were together.

I didn't see him for Skate nite on Tuesday...



-----Original Message-----
From: X
Sent: Thursday, November 15, 2001 2:01 PM
To: e
Subject: Re: the latest foulness

Oh my God! I thought she was done being polyamorous with J. How
long has J been living with them? Poor E. I can only scratch
my head...I try to tell myself that since he LOVES her there must be
a good reason, but she has shown me no reasons at all to be worthy of
E's love. Why does he put up with this.

I hate to throw this out there, but could the three of them be ...you
know. That almost never works, A and my Uncle V, use to be a
threesome. It gets very complicated.

Well, try not to worry about him too much, I know how you worry bout
him. He is a big boy.

------'s class is on their camping trip that you sold candy for. I
hope he isn't getting slammed by this nasty weather, but I bet he is.
He is nearKerrville. He'll be home Tomorrow night and i'll get to
hear all about it.

I love you.
xoxoxoxoxo-X

----- Original Message -----
From: mE
Sent: Thursday, November 15, 2001 2:30 PM
To: 'X'
Subject: RE: the latest foulness
 
Wow. this is SUCK camping weather. Poor ------! Hopefully the
grownups in charge had some common sense and the kids are now eating
marshmallows in front of a TV at the Travelodge. :)

Well, apparently A wasn't quite done with J yet.. E didn't
mention it at TRF, so I am assuming he doesn't wish to discuss it
with me. I wish he felt like he could confide in me....but I would
have such a hard time being a sympathetic listener and not being ugly
& judgemental. I know that's what he really needs, just someone to
listen and not say anything bad about his wife, or make any snippy
comments. I'd try hard not to....but I dont think I could do it. I
don't get it either. I hope he gets sick of being used soon. I had
hoped that J would get a good job and take A away from E,
but apparently that was not to be. He got a degree in Asian
Folklore or something really useful like that...

I dont' know how long J's been with them.  ----- didn't say when -
called, but he called for E one morning a while back and J 
answered the phone and said E wasn't home, so when Eric & --- 
spoke later, that's when he got the 'oh, it's just temporary' thing.
*sigh*

I don't know what she has that makes not just 1 but TWO men want to
slavishly devote themselves to  her happiness. Why does she get to
stay home and play, never do housework, not work for a living, but
eat very well, have exotic pets & buy 'pretty' clothes & costumey
bits....it just makes me MAD. She doesn't deserve any of it. Not that
I'd want to live in a trailer or have a bird, or a lover,
but....damn. It sucks that she gets everything she wants and doesn't
have to do a damn thing for it except open her legs, apparently.

I think E and J are both very hetero, so probably things won't
go that way...but if J was actually working & contributing
something to the household instead of just being a sponge, maybe it
would be okay. Their house is tiny & very cluttered as it is, I don't
know where they'd even put another person. I know when he's visited
in the past, he's cleaned house for them. So maybe it isn't as bad as
I think...

Oh well. It's none of my business. If I see E around or talk to
him on the phone, I'll see if he's interested in Thanksgiving, but I
really don't wanna stir any of that shit up.