3649today's ICQ

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Kahlua: Bye!
evile: Oh, I have an hour to go and still need to get 11 thingies
entered so I had to close out a few distractions
Kahlua: We're a distraction? :)
evile: just a little.
evile: Mostly clicking over to see what's new, compulsively, because
unlike iCQ it doesn't blink or anything when new stuff happens in my
TIM telnet window.
Kahlua: Ah, true
evile: I'm almost done :)
evile: ooopsie, pissed off my SIL
Kahlua: Awwwww, that's a shame
Kahlua: UNless she charges, of course.
Kahlua: OLE!
Kahlua: OK, that was mean.
Kahlua: Sorry.
evile: heehee :)
Kahlua: What did you do?
evile: her tarot post last night was amazingly timed so as to almost
be a response to a friends locked post by her ex bf. I pointed out
the coincidence and rather than praise her psychic abilities, I
congratulated her on her effective spy.
Kahlua: Bwahaha
Kahlua: I see your minions are both wide-ranging and accurate in
their spying!
evile: heehee :)
evile: Hopefully he's got the isp tracker up on his LJ so he will at
least know this time that it wasn't me. I want no part of that
nonsense. He has me listed as a friend, so I can read his friends-
only posts, but I don't list him as my friend, and I don't read his
LJ very often at all. Unless she posts something very pointed and
obviously in response to him, and hten I have to go look at the
trainwreck.
evile: Next on Springer: "When Poly Goes Very Very Very WRONG"
Kahlua: LOL
Kahlua: You'd THINK, with all the partners to choose from, that you
could find SOME WAY to be happy without issues.
Kahlua: Man, I'd be happy as a pig in shit. :)
Kahlua: People FIND ways to make things difficult
evile: Well, there's poly, and then theres flat out cuckolding &
emasculating and sticking a fancy label on it.
Kahlua: Yeah, well, I meant if I was doing Poly, not cheating on my
wife. :)
evile: And anyone who says "I am poly and bi and I can do whatever I
want and it's none of my husband's business, but if my husband or
lover take a lover, that's cheating"....I really don't see that as a
viable form of poly.
Kahlua: Yeah, no kidding.
Kahlua: What's good for the goose. after all... :)
evile: mystifies me that anybody would put up with that obvious and
insane of a double standard.
Kahlua: "You have to trust me, but I don't trust you, you cheating no-
good bastard."
evile: hehee :)
evile: pretty much. It disgusts me beyond belief.
evile: I'm kind of still stuck with the 'don't ask don't tell' school
of poly, which isn't that healthy either. He can do what he wants, as
long as he stays safe and doesn't do it in our bed, and I don't want
to meet her/them.
Kahlua: That's not so much poly as Open Marriage, which isn't the
same to me
evile: *nod*
evile: the way I look at it, poly is an umbrella term, sort of
like 'christian'..and then swinging, open marriage, poly-fi, etc. are
little 'sub sects'
Kahlua: That works.
evile: I still haven't taken Sweetie up on his 'be safe and take
pictures'...its like, since it's OK to 'cheat', I don't want to. :P
Kahlua: Awww!
Kahlua: We're all losing out!
Kahlua: :P
evile: aww :P

Kahlua: I understand, it's not as fun when you have permission,
right? :)
evile: yup. isn't that silly?
Kahlua: No, it seems like a pretty common human trait :)
evile: yup.
Kahlua: Well, do let us know if you get over the lack of interest.
Enquiring minds want to know. LOL
evile: thanks :)
evile: time for me to vamoose. *hugs*
Kahlua: Bye!