Hell, I probably am.
http://tinyurl.com/nsjbg6
I've also seen the opposite of #4, where "Miss Pro V" will start the relationship telling you that her ex was a monster, treating you like her savior, saying that she's never felt so trusting and so close and so loved before meeting you, then as the shiny wears off, or she doesn't get her way or you dare to disagree, suddenly you are 'just like' her awful abusive ex.
http://tinyurl.com/nsjbg6
I've also seen the opposite of #4, where "Miss Pro V" will start the relationship telling you that her ex was a monster, treating you like her savior, saying that she's never felt so trusting and so close and so loved before meeting you, then as the shiny wears off, or she doesn't get her way or you dare to disagree, suddenly you are 'just like' her awful abusive ex.