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ya know...
Feb. 23rd, 2010 03:10 pmWhen someone has made threats in their LJ, enjoys bragging about being an expert with firearms, enjoys telling stories about defacing property with bladed weapons, threatening strangers in public restaurants with bladed weapons, and you know that they dislike you and blame you for a good number of their personal problems...it seems like a smart thing to do to just kind of send out feelers every once in a while to see what they're blogging about publicly, where they might be planning on going (just so you can decide whether or not it's worth it for you to also be there), and, if possible, where they ARE at any given moment, just to have some peace of mind that they haven't been driving by your home or workplace with any sort of frequency.
It's like...I don't think I have enough tangible info to take out a restraining order, but I don't have 100% peace of mind that you're not going to flip your wig someday soon and come by my house or workplace with weapons of some kind and malicious intent.
Does it count as 'stalking' to check up on someone who has made those sorts of threats in the past (and, for all I know, is continuing to make them)?
I am just looking. I'm not saying anything to them, not leaving comments in their LJ or replies to their comments in mutual friends' LJs...just trying to stay aware of where they are, what they're doing, and whether or not they are working themselves up into a potential deadly temper.
And all of this is exacerbated, of course, by their convictions that I am out to get them, plotting against them, poisoning or attempting to poison mutual friends against them, etc etc etc. Because the 'they' of which I speak has little to no understanding that when people don't like them, it is based on what they, themselves, say and do, and not on my say-so.
It's like...I don't think I have enough tangible info to take out a restraining order, but I don't have 100% peace of mind that you're not going to flip your wig someday soon and come by my house or workplace with weapons of some kind and malicious intent.
Does it count as 'stalking' to check up on someone who has made those sorts of threats in the past (and, for all I know, is continuing to make them)?
I am just looking. I'm not saying anything to them, not leaving comments in their LJ or replies to their comments in mutual friends' LJs...just trying to stay aware of where they are, what they're doing, and whether or not they are working themselves up into a potential deadly temper.
And all of this is exacerbated, of course, by their convictions that I am out to get them, plotting against them, poisoning or attempting to poison mutual friends against them, etc etc etc. Because the 'they' of which I speak has little to no understanding that when people don't like them, it is based on what they, themselves, say and do, and not on my say-so.
