1926Dinner with Rubber_pig

[evile]

 

Feb. 7, 2004

 

Me to J-Law:

Oh dear ghod.

Apparently Brother A and Trey's wife Rubber_pig are

1) an item
2) going to get married in July
and
3) wanting to have a baby. She has already (allegedly)
miscarried once since they've been together (and of
course they KNOW it was his...what EVER)

Stop the fucking world--I want to get OFF.

I have tried very hard to convince myself that maybe
I'm just too judgemental. That I expect too much from
any woman who would presume to take one of MY darling
brothers off the market. That I would not accept
anyone who dated them, no matter how nice they really
were, that I'd just find fault & be horrible, that the
problem was perhaps ME, not the women that sineater and
Brother A choose to date.

Tonight proved to me conclusively and 100% that I am
NOT wrong and have NEVER been wrong in the estimation
of any of Brother A or sineater's women. For some horrible
reason known only to God, my brothers have HIDEOUS
taste in women and end up with self-centered crazy
user bitches.

Tonight we heard about how:

She has been married to Trey twice, divorced him once,
and betewen marriage #1 and #2, she got knocked up
with the middle child, whose name is apparently
"Bliss".

Yet, according to my Mom, who called Aunt L earlier
today to tell her to "be nice", Rubber_pig was REALLY
WORRIED about making a good first impression on Aunt L &
Uncle B.

To me, making a good impression would seem to include
NOT sharing such skankariffic tidbits about yourself
with people upon first meeting them.

She had a Mexican Martini and got tipsy.

She SNORTED when she laughed. I think the first time
she did it was an accident and then when the waiter
thought it was cute, she kept doing it on purpose.

Cousin B was in town for the weekend, helping Uncle B do some
work out on L&B's new property, and even HE was
annoyed as hell with this womans' behavior.

She showed us the contents of her purse to show us
what a good mother & how organized she is, including
the fact that she carries sanitary pads just in case
her 10 year old starts her period(EW!!!)

She also talked about giving birth to one of her THREE
(Three! 3!!!!!) ...I didn't listen too hard, she said
the word 'crowning' and then I tuned the fuck out!

Ugh. She is awful. Another Skye_ds in the making.
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Me to CF LJ community:

Oh, I'm gonna be SICK!
Met my bro's new GF tonight for the 2nd time.

They met at the same New Year's Eve party where I met her for the
first time.

Turns out she is a twice married, once divorced mother of 3
"A 10 year old, a 5 year old and a 20 month old"

She's in school.

My brother has been unemployed for over a year.

She is still married to the father of two of her 3 kids.

They have been 'dating' since Dec. 31 and it is now only the first
week of February.

They plan on getting married in July.

She has already miscarried his(????) baby and they want to have one
together.

*bangs head into wall until it is a bloody pulp*

You know, I used to think I was some kind of evil bad sister for
always finding fault with every woman my brothers brought home. I
told myself I was being too critical, I should give them the benefit
of the doubt, I shouldn't be so harsh and judgemental.

But ya know...I really don't think so.

What the hell kind of woman says she wants to make a good impression
on a guy's family and then goes out to dinner with them and tells the
guy's aunt & uncle that her middle child is not the child of her
first husband?!?

I am just thinking with the head on top and not the one between the
legs, so I guess that's why I see this for the ungodly train wreck it
so obviously IS.

Please, Gods, Goddesses, and all the little Demons in Hell, don't let
this woman get pregnant again! Knock some sense into my brother
before something horrible happens!

Comments

1940Re: Dinner with Rubber_pig

[evile]

Feb. 10, 2004


evilE wrote:
I don't know if Sister H will say anything or not, to be
honest. But you're right--if she did, Brother A would
probably take her more seriously than he takes me.

Because I'm like you; it's pretty rare that I DO like
anyone. :P (*andrew. sigh.* you are right about those
A named women, I think.)

I think you're making good progress on the John thing.
You are being a lot more generous and kind in
conversation at this point than I would be in a
similar situation. It is probably very helpful that
he's not right there in the same city, the physical
distance keeps things on a more even keel.

*sigh* I've got 48 minutes now. I may go home & get a
nap before I do anything else.

J-Law:

Thanks for the perspective on the John thing. Mary thinks I am being
a doormat (not surprising. She is a pretty radical feminist of the
old school). My diplomatic friends may be thinking the same thing,
but express it as gentle worry that, perhaps, my friendship with John
isn't worth enduring the occassional irritations/hurts that come up
in conversation.

To be totally fair to him, though, he has been very good about not
dredging up the hurtful stuff, e.g., never having met the right woman.

Anyway - you're about the only person who thinks I am being good,
generous, kind, etc. rather than some wuss. And it's a big deal for
me to be the way I am being, and not feel that it's weak or whatever -
not being/seeming/feeling weak is usually high on my list of
emotional priorities.

So - thank you! *hug*

It's hard to imagine Sister H saying anything to Brother A about Rubber_pig. I
mean, it is one thing for her to confide in you about her feelings --
a whole other thing for a truly kind, generous spirit like Sister H to
confront Brother A about it.

But, you never know. Her feelings are probably very strong, so she
might feel she has to.

A nap sounds like a good idea to me, too. :) I am more or less done
with my research and moving on to some serious tedium.