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[evile]

Sep. 20, 2005

 

 

evile [12:02]: hey :)
SkyeDS [12:03]: hola chica :)
evile [12:03]: how's your day going?
SkyeDS [12:03]: it goes, how's yours?
evile [12:03]: Not bad. Tired & cranky, but OK
evile [12:05]: One of my friends says his ICQ doesn' t show me
online, so I dicked around with it and set it to 'privacy' and now I
can't make it go back to 'available'. FEH!
SkyeDS [12:06]: sonar0m mentioned seeing you last night and what his
parents had to say afterwards. I told him well you should have told
them I am one of her least favorite people and then maybe they would
have decided that the enemy of their enemy is their friend ROFL.
evile [12:07]: They seemed friendly enough...and I didn't give them
anything to deride--I was there with my girlfrends, we were all
decently clad and having normal conversation in normal tones.
SkyeDS [12:07]: you are the sister in law of the devil incarnate.
guilt by association :P
SkyeDS [12:07]: I thought it was funny
SkyeDS [12:07]: especially coming from the King and Queen of
Negativity.
evile [12:08]: *shrug* I have plenty of things about me that are hate-
able, so I'd prefer it if people would actually pick a tangible
quality rather than making up shit to bitch about. whatever.
SkyeDS [12:08]: that was my whole point. All they know about you is
that you are my sister in law, and that's enough to damn you. Which
is why I observed that if they knew you better...etc.
SkyeDS [12:09]: anyway, damnation coming from them is high praise to
the rest of us noncertifiable types :P
SkyeDS [12:09]: they've never learned the one finger pointing at
someone else leaves four fingers pointing back in their own
direction, etc.
evile [12:10]: whatever. Like I said, they seemed like normal people.
SkyeDS [12:11]: their public facades are impeccable, to be sure.
Anyway, sounds like ya'll had a good crowd and a good time last
night. Mangia's and ice cream, what's not to like.
evile [12:11]: yup
SkyeDS [12:11]: I hope they don't change it.
evile [12:11]: that sucks.
SkyeDS [12:12]: I'm kind of attached to Amy's just the way it is.
evile [12:12]: Me too.
evile [12:13]: nikiyoy likes coldstone creamery....I am not very
impressed thus far.
evile [12:16]: I did get Sweetie some wasabi ice cream there, which was
amusing, at least.
SkyeDS [12:18]: some years ago, kaleon took one of his friends to a
Japanese steakhouse and let him think that the wasabi was green tea
ice cream. Everyone was amused except for his friend of course.
evile [12:18]: aww. that's mean.
SkyeDS [12:19]: speaking of which, I took that lightsaber test a good
while back. I got purple too.
SkyeDS [12:19]: I read kaleon's little dissertation about the dark
side, and that was good for a smile - didn't merit a laugh.
evile [12:21]: whatever.
evile [12:22]: I came as close as I dared to saying "look, being a
whiney ass bitch isn't the same thing as being DARK"
SkyeDS [12:22]: I saw.
SkyeDS [12:22]: you were so tactful he won't ever get the point.
evile [12:22]: flew about a mile over his head I think
SkyeDS [12:22]: nodnodnods
SkyeDS [12:23]: Alabastard said the same thing you said, in many more
words and a lot more pointedly about the same thing not too long ago.
evile [12:23]: Oh well, amused me for a second anyway
SkyeDS [12:24]: I didn't think better before I posted to Chaos
yesterday and of course got exactly what I expected, oh well.
evile [12:24]: haven't read hfsinchaos in forever.
SkyeDS [12:25]: I don't get around to email lately until the end of
the day, so reading newsgroups, LJ and other boards sometimes only
gets done once a week now.
evile [12:26]: where in chaos is this going on?
SkyeDS [12:27]: terwin posted in discussions a joke about light v
heavy
SkyeDS [12:27]: and the reason I opened my big fat yap is because
Ceceil was bragging about head shots
evile [12:27]: illegal, yes?
SkyeDS [12:27]: I don't like Ceceil. And he aims those head shots at
Sharjinka
SkyeDS [12:27]: damn straight.
SkyeDS [12:28]: He's nearly as bad as sonar0m, and sonar0m is severely
dyslexic. And sonar0m is struggling to finish community college, he
isn't bragging about his professional life and pursuing a PhD.
evile [12:29]: d'oh
SkyeDS [12:29]: PtA responded that it was a joke. That's fine. And
it wasn't a joke, because every time I see him fight I see him aim
for the head, repeatedly, on purpose.
SkyeDS [12:29]: GtWhatever came back with a comment about my
accidental shot on Jose
evile [12:29]: so I hear
SkyeDS [12:29]: which I should have expected.
SkyeDS [12:30]: anyway, I knew I shouldn't have posted and posted
anyway, because I don't like Ceceil, my friends don't like Ceceil, a
nd I know Ceceil hits people in the head on purpose, particularly
Sharjinka.
SkyeDS [12:30]: and he's part of PtA and GtFuck's grand plan to unify
the HFS so they can be dictatorial tyrants.
SkyeDS [12:31]: and in general he thinks he's all that, a bag of
doritos and some ho hos. And he ain't.
evile [12:31]: When there is absolutely no real-life attractiveness,
accomplishment, or talent to back it up, especially.
SkyeDS [12:32]: I knew better and did it anyway and got what I
expected to get, so there tis.
evile [12:32]: *nod* No more fuel for that fire from you, I'm sure.
Silly people.
SkyeDS [12:33]: sometimes I have better control over what goes into
my mouth than what comes out.
SkyeDS [12:33]: but most of the time I restrain myself pretty heavily
with that group.
evile [12:34]: *nod*
evile [12:35]: battles of wits, unarmed opponents, bla bla.
evile [12:45]: well the good/bad news is that I may not have missed
my cousin John's visit after all...he got into some financial
troubles and may not be driving to TX after all.
SkyeDS [12:48]: :|
evile [13:15]: My cousin Weez sent me his #, I'll call him tonight
and see what's up.
SkyeDS [13:16]: nods
evile [13:17]: it'd be funny to introduce him to [cousin B], I think "first
paternal older than me cousin, meet first maternal younger than me
cousin" :P
evile [13:17]: And, yes, all the horrible nasty bully things John did
to me when I was little, I did to [cousin B]. Ain't it grand :P
SkyeDS [13:18]: all that usually confuses me. All of my cousins are
through my grandparents because both of my parents are only children.
evile [13:19]: John is my father's sister's boy. [cousin B] is my mother's
brother's boy.
evile [13:20]: I usually don't start confusing people until I throw
in the halfs, ex, steps, and various combinations thereof.
SkyeDS [13:40]: they're starting a faire in the Valley
SkyeDS [13:40]: I may go one weekend since my trip to the Valley to
see Cali in January fell through due to the torque converter going
hasta la bye bye again
evile [13:41]: that sounds like fun.
SkyeDS [13:57]: maybe. if they'll accept a contract for just one
weekend.
SkyeDS [13:57]: some faires seem to be more reasonable about that
than others. It doesn't bother Dustin that we can't do his whole 7
week run.
evile [13:57]: *nod*
SkyeDS [13:58]: Excal is going to set their new date for Feb.
evile [13:58]: that should be interesting
SkyeDS [13:58]: Ravensloft is looking at Feb/March.
SkyeDS [13:58]: I really don't understand the attitude of Excal's
jousting company
SkyeDS [13:58]: all of the other jousting companies like having us
around
evile [13:58]: heck, I didn't even know they had one.
evile [13:59]: small man's syndrome, more than likely :P
SkyeDS [13:59]: they do, and they have said they'd pull out if there
was another horse act OR a rides vendor.
evile [14:00]: wierd.
evile [14:05]: well, as long as it profits faire management to have
them there, as the only horse act, that's the way it'll be, I guess.
SkyeDS [14:20]: just got my first evacuee call from Galveston
evile [14:20]: oh, my
evile [14:21]: what is it?
SkyeDS [14:36]: 9 yo mare
SkyeDS [14:36]: her people are going to College Station
SkyeDS [14:36]: I may be going to Galveston to haul a nd I may not
evile [14:37]: *nod* sounds like fun (not!)
SkyeDS [14:40]: thing is, we'll be likely having tornadoes if a Cat 3
hits the TX coast.
SkyeDS [14:40]: and I can't get any horses out but my own if we do
because my trailer only holds two.
evile [14:40]: probably...
SkyeDS [14:40]: so if she wants her horses moved in case of tornado
she'll have to do it herself.
evile [14:40]: well...ya pays yer money, ya takes yer chances...
SkyeDS [14:40]: but even if she doesn't move the mare, horses stand a
better chance against a tornado than a hurricane.
evile [14:41]: yup
evile [14:54]: I can see TX open-hearted attitude towards Katrina
evacuees changing radically once we have 'our own' to take care of.
SkyeDS [14:55]: I'm giving in my own way. Anyone who doesn't like it
can just go their own way, I don't really care to hear it.
evile [14:55]: yup.
evile [15:10]: reading more posts about the bash....I really wish I'd
mustered up enough energy to get to the party Saturday night, at
least. *pout*
SkyeDS [15:10]: :(
evile [15:11]: Oh well. next play party, I'm goin to be there!!!!
oh...wait, no I'm not. the next one is a Voyagers party and it's the
same night as another party we're invited to. damn.
SkyeDS [15:12]: you need a timeturner
evile [15:12]: people need to not do everything at the same time!!
SkyeDS [15:13]: All of Texas is going to have bad weather if Rita
comes this way this weekend.
SkyeDS [15:13]: wonder what that's going to do to the Faire.
SkyeDS [15:13]: not to mention, NOLA can't handle more than 6" of
water at one time or the levees will break, again
evile [15:14]: it would be nice if it could just cool things off a
bit, but that's probably too much to hope for.
SkyeDS [15:14]: the winds alone will reach to OK or past. but it
will probably rain that far inland too.
evile [15:14]: *nod*
evile [15:24]: I'm so sleepy. But I have to go home & make food to
bring to work tomorrow, and then we're going to dinner & then I'm
going to skate night. Crash isn't going to be at dinner, he's going
to see Journey. What a freak. :P
SkyeDS [15:25]: we didn't do any rehearsing last night because I
didn't get home until just before midnight.
evile [15:25]: He and Kathleen went to their divorce mediation
yesterday and Kathleen decided she didn't want a divorce after all.
Go fig
SkyeDS [15:25]: we only have three days to rehearse before we leave
Friday, assuming Rita doesn't wash out the Faire.
evile [15:25]: *nod*
SkyeDS [15:25]: how does Crash feel about all this?
SkyeDS [15:26]: I mean that's got to be hard on him.
evile [15:26]: Well, she is the one who delivered the ultimatum, and
he didn't want to comply, so figured that was that. Now she's
backpedaling and making needless suffering for all.
SkyeDS [15:26]: sighs
evile [15:26]: And, of course, creating lots of situations where she
looks like the blameless martyr victim and he looks like the asshole.
evile [15:27]: I'm sorry, but delivering ultimatums is not the act of
a loving caring spouse
evile [15:27]: So...as far as Crash & his allies are concerned the
chance for reconciliation or saving the marriage passed the second
she said "do it my way OR ELSE" ya know?
SkyeDS [15:28]: there's got to be a way to discuss dealbreakers
without handing down ultimatums
SkyeDS [15:28]: out of curiosity, what was supposed to be "her way or
else"?
evile [15:28]: The only possible situation I can see an ultimatum as
being a loving gesture is if Crash was engaging in behavior which was
endandering himself and/or others (drug use, cheating, like that)
SkyeDS [15:28]: drug use and cheating are the kind of deal breakers
that get discussed before you get married
evile [15:29]: yup.
SkyeDS [15:29]: the three A's = abuse, adultery, addiction.
evile [15:29]: At any rate, it wasn't anything that needed that kind
of extreme response, and Crash was pretty much taken aback and
decided not to mess with her crazy, controlling Scorpio ass any more.
SkyeDS [15:30]: what was it?
SkyeDS [15:30]: and what is Crash signwise?
evile [15:30]: Not really at liberty to discuss. Crash is a Gemini.
As you well know, it's a dangerous combination that doesn't work
unless both partners give and do a LOT to make it work.
SkyeDS [15:31]: that's very true.
SkyeDS [15:31]: thing being that Gemini is mutable Air, and Scorpio
is fixed water.
SkyeDS [15:31]: that means that by nature Gemini is going to give
more and Scorpio will take more.
SkyeDS [15:32]: he must have been pushed pretty damn far before he
said that's enough
SkyeDS [15:32]: farther than some other people would have allowed
themselves to be pushed
evile [15:32]: yup
SkyeDS [15:33]: I didn't know that they were Gem/Scorp too. Isn't
that interesting.
evile [15:33]: yup.
evile [15:35]: Honestly, I think our faire friend Chris called it,
way back when, he said "She's gonna get one of us," (referring to the
single guys in our group of faire folks)....I don't really know if it
mattered to her which one she caught, she wanted 'in' that badly.
SkyeDS [15:36]: I d on't understand that mode of thinking because I'm
not made that way <shrug>
evile [15:36]: And very interesting that she was one of the ones most
threatened and offended when I'd show up by myself to something
because Sweetie had made other plans.
SkyeDS [15:37]: well, that's not quite so silly as being threatened
by me.
SkyeDS [15:37]: not if you were to stand us side by side naked.
evile [15:37]: but you're poly and I'm not.
SkyeDS [15:37]: so?
SkyeDS [15:38]: it's easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a
needle, and for a rich man to get into heaven, than to become a new
partner in my life.
evile [15:38]: I'm not available to anybody but Sweetie. you're
theoretically available to whoever piques your interest. I'd see you
as a larger threat simply because your'e sexually available,
regardless of our respective appearances.
SkyeDS [15:39]: lol, people think I'm more available than I am.
SkyeDS [15:39]: besides I've done the three thing, and I'm just not
woman enough for more than two at once.
evile [15:39]: well, sure. *shrug*
evile [15:40]: I guess some people just don't understand that someone
could or would make a committment and stick to it...when I say I'm
hetero mono for as long as Sweetie and I are together, that's exactly
what I mean.
evile [15:41]: I'm not after anyone, I'm not available to
anyone....certainly not Crash or any of our other faire guys. They're
all sweet & fun to hang out with, but...no.
SkyeDS [15:42]: I w onder if it's the same people who don't
understand that me and mine don't cheat because we are painfully open
and honest with each other
SkyeDS [15:42]: that don't understand that you mean what you say
SkyeDS [15:42]: because these people DO cheat (where you don't) and
they DO lie (where I don't)
evile [15:43]: I suppose. It's just irritating. No, honey, really...I
don't want your bologne sandwich. I have prime rib at home. Really,
seriously. Have it all. Go for it.
SkyeDS [15:43]: nods. rolls eyes.
SkyeDS [15:44]: if you think that something like me can take what
you've got, maybe you ought to work on yourself and you wouldn't feel
that way.
evile [15:45]: well, yeah, jealousy is all about insecurity...it's
not about other people at all, it's about not feeling worthy to have
what you have. But, sadly, if you act like that, it messes up the
trust in the relationship and creates a self-fulfilling prophecy in a
lot of cases.
evile [15:46]: If Sweetie ever acted like a jealous jerk, didn't trust
me, I'd cheat in a heartbeat. But because he trusts me 100%, I'm 100%
trustworthy.
evile [15:47]: These days, he's saying that if I'm safe and take
pictures I can do whatever I want...I haven't found anyone yet to
test that theory with :P
evile [15:52]: Like I'd have time for a new relationship right now,
anyway. I've got my girlfriends, my groups, Sweetie, and that's pretty
much all my free time right there. I still need to make time for
house, garden, and crafts....all of which I'd rather do than make
sweaty photographs :P
evile [15:53]: I still want to do photos with April sometime, though.
evile [15:56]: Not really the same kind of pictures...though I
suppose they could be :P
SkyeDS [15:56, Auto Response ]: I am currently away from the computer.
evile [15:56]: well, I"m going to make the rounds *hugs* for when you
get back. Have a safe drive home!