https://shrink4men.com/2024/04/24/the-narcissistic-womans-relationship-manifesto-part-1/

this is a post from Xitter that when Dr T reposted in her article above, had 1.4 million views, thousands of 'quote' and 'reposts'...uggggh...Whhyyyyyyyyyy?

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Gia Macool

@GiaMMacool

What women don’t openly tell men: She likes “assholes” over “nice guys.” She desires a man she perceives to be a challenge, because she wants to earn your love. She will tell her girlfriend “I hate him” but secretly wants to F*ck him. The more emotional she is the more she cares. A man who complains is one of the biggest “ick” factors to a woman. Don’t complain about women on social media, it’s a huge turn off. She wants a man who wins, Period. She doesn’t want to hear about your struggles. A man who puts her mind at rest so she doesn’t need to worry about things, is a huge turn on. Women will always have a plan B. It’s in our DNA. If the relationship has been troubled for too long, she will begin to “slow release” from him before she ever, actually, walks away. This is why men think women move on quickly. However, she just implement her plan B, long before she told you goodbye. If she is attentive to your needs,such as wants to… Cook for you Clean for you Do your laundry Give you endless sex …she is in love with you. What she wants from you is integrity. Girls don't want to hear some, long, drawn out, heartfelt, communication from you. They want a dependable leader. Set boundaries and then act on your words. Nuff said. Deep down every girl wants to relinquish control and submit herself to a man who is a competent leader. If you’re a follower, like her, don’t be surprised when she ghosts you and walks away.

2:25 PM · Apr 21, 2024

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wow, this is some toxic bullshit. I don't know anything about the person, but apparently they're an influencer of some kind, relationship/lifestyle coach, bla bla.
Seems very creepy...kind of tradwife with some kind of extra 'ick' of some kind. shadowy non consentual BDSM or something? I dunno, the post reads as very 'off' to me. Grammatical / spelling issues aside. What kind of relationship is she describing? Sort of a contempt + lust + greed thing?

Idunno, it's just gross. I have a partner, not a 'leader'...certainly not an 'asshole'. I agree with the 'complainer' stuff....I don't think anyone likes a complainer, and certainly not a person who denigrates or complains about everyone of their desired gender when they're looking for a relationship. I think maybe it is a red, or at least 'hot pink' flag if someone makes blanket statements about 'all men' or 'all women' or "women just want this" or "men just want that," .... we are all people and we don't all want the same things from a partner or a relationship.

Anyway, the post was super creepy and Dr. T makes some good points. I suppose if you want the kind of relationship sMcCool portrays herself as having, you can model her behavior and see what you get. I prefer no assholes, no games, direct communication, and absolutely a partnership rather than a 'follower/leader' dynamic.

The Narcissistic Woman’s Relationship Manifesto, Part 1

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