*whistles innocently* If you think I'm talking about you...

[evile]

Hell, I probably am.

http://tinyurl.com/nsjbg6

I've also seen the opposite of #4, where "Miss Pro V" will start the relationship telling you that her ex was a monster, treating you like her savior, saying that she's never felt so trusting and so close and so loved before meeting you, then as the shiny wears off, or she doesn't get her way or you dare to disagree, suddenly you are 'just like' her awful abusive ex.

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[made-of-paradox.livejournal.com]

And if I don't think you're talking about me, what then? :)

[lizarde.livejournal.com]

I think the person who wrote that article is talking about herself.

Consider:
-It's all the "professional victim's" fault
-The professional victim is pathologized. Clearly she is sick, and the appropriate response to finding out someone has a mental health problem is to declare them a bad person and run away. Because clearly having any of those problems makes you inhuman, always wrong and a monster.
-It's completely black and white.

I really don't recommend articles like that to anyone who is trying to heal and be a better person. They just encourage more black and white thinking. I'm really surprised someone gave her a PsyD.