Well, I sent A a yahoo message and a snail mail with the same
message, basically that since mom & dad are coming, I want us to get
along and make sure that they have a pleasant visit. I don't expect a
response. *sigh* this sucks so much. But she is gradually (I hope)
having less power in my life to distress me.
I am thinking that she will probably be all "What are you talking
about?" when I have offered to let her vent about anything I've done
to her in the past and she is still hurt over.
Well, gee, I criticized her for something she had recently
done/failed to do, and she brought up the bachelorette party. So to
me that means that it's an unresolved issue for her.
I barely remember the fuken thing. She and some tall quiet girl with
long ash blonde hair came and sat on X's couch, A made an
announcement about having her period, told us that she couldn't have
coke,then had a coke anyway, bashed on E, which pissed me and X
off, then everything calmed down again and she left, saying something
like "once we get moved in, y'all should come over to our apartment's
hottub"
The next thing I know, E is calling in a fury, wanting to know
what we said to his wife, and she's been siccing E on her problems
ever since.
That's all I know, and all I remember, and I'm not even sure at this
point what I really remember, or what is just what X has told me
happened. I remember sitting at the table with E on the phone
trying to calm him down while A was yelling in the background.
But nothing specific, and nothing I'd really change. Other than not
throwing the wretched beast a party in the first place.
