Sep. 30, 2003


Sent copy of unsent letter to J-Law with this note:

I posted this to "unsent leters" at diaryland. I feel
a ton better. I really hope I don't end up with the
kids. No way we can afford that, and I wouldn't
saddle Sweetie with the responsibility...but..*sigh* I
dunno. we'll see. anyhoo...thought i'd share, but you
dont' hve to read it if you don't want. It's pretty
evil. I would seriously LOVE to send it to her. But I
won't.
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her reply:

Dude!

You probably won't ever get custody of the kids - would more than
likely go to Xs's folks (i.e., M & C), or [M - X's husband]'s.
Failing that, foster care.

If I were you, I wouldn't take those kids, regardless of the
alternative. You have to look out for you & Sweetie, and what you can
afford.

And if you have those kids, you will be tied to that filthy two-faced
wretch and her psycho husband for the rest of your life. My 2 cents.